Twiglet Tales

Twiglet Tales

🌳Family Tree — Northern China

Every baby's family looks different — grandparents, two moms, two dads, one parent, a big blended crew. These are the words for the people who show up and love your baby, whoever they are — using the everyday terms common across northern China (姥姥/姥爷, 大爷/大娘). There's a Southern China version too, with its own set of terms for the same relatives.

At 3-6 months babies are refining face recognition and starting to distinguish familiar caregivers from strangers; consistently naming who's who while making eye contact builds an early link between a face and a word — and pairing it with warm affection teaches that love has a sound before it has meaning.

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🌳 Who's who?

Chinese has a different word for almost every branch of the family — tap any card to flip it and reveal what it means. This tree uses the region's own terms — see the Family Names button above for how they differ.

Dad's side

爷爷yéye
Grandpa (dad's side)
奶奶nǎinai
Grandma (dad's side)
爸爸bàba
DadDuplication (爸爸) gives a softer, affectionate tone.
+ siblings
叔叔shūshu
Uncle (dad's younger brother)Only for dad's younger brother — dad's older brother is a separate word, 大爷. 叔叔 is also used generally for any close family friend who's a man.
大爷dàye
Uncle (dad's older brother)Common in northern China for dad's older brother — a separate word from 叔叔, which is only for his younger brother. (大爷 is also used more broadly as a respectful term for an older man.)
大娘dàniáng
Auntie (dad's older brother's wife)Northern China's term for 大爷's wife — dad's older sister-in-law.
姑姑gūgu
Auntie (dad's sister)

Mom's side

姥姥lǎolao
Grandma (mom's side)The everyday term across much of northern China — the Southern China version of this tree uses 外婆 (wàipó) instead.
姥爷lǎoye
Grandpa (mom's side)The everyday term across much of northern China — the Southern China version of this tree uses 外公 (wàigōng) instead.
妈妈māma
MomDuplication (妈 + 妈) gives a softer, affectionate tone, similar to "mummy" in English.
+ siblings
舅舅jiùjiu
Uncle (mom's brother)Chinese kinship terms are far more specific than English — a mom's brother and a dad's brother get entirely different words.
舅妈jiùmā
Auntie (mom's brother's wife)The precise term for mom's brother's wife — his sister-in-law. Many families use the more general 阿姨 ("auntie") instead in everyday speech.
哥哥gēge
Big brother
姐姐jiějie
Big sister
Your baby
弟弟dìdi
Little brother
妹妹mèimei
Little sister

💛 Loving words

Phrases for asking who loves baby — and answering with a squeeze.

这是谁呀?zhè shì shuí ya ?
Who is this?
我是谁?wǒ shì shuí ?
Who am I?
谁爱你shéi ài nǐ
Who loves you?
我们都爱你wǒmen dōu ài nǐ
We all love you
爸爸妈妈都爱你bàba māma dōu ài nǐ
Mommy and daddy both love you
笑一个xiào yī gè
Give us a smile
抱抱bào bào
Cuddle me
亲一个qīn yī gè
Give a kiss
想抱抱吗xiǎng bào bào ma
Want a cuddle?

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